And it is time sensitive, my aunt is in danger of losing her house and the reason I am having cash flow shortage is because my buyer is in the hospital with a "cold" (covid19) and my closing had to be pushed back to next week. . 

If the numbers work, it's not an interest rate sensitive loan with the condensed payoff.

It's OK to be sensitive when it comes to certain aspects but when that is being project onto others bc you feel the need to flex your authority is simply out of order....

There are lots of lenders here on BP that can walk you through the what financing options are available to you and once you know that you can map out what investment strategy will make the most sense for you (based on your goals and sensitivity to risk).John

It leads me to believe they are sensitive to attacks - maybe it happens regularly?

I'm in an environmentally sensitive area and got a bunch of quotes from contractors and engineers approved by the town. 

The Private Mortgage Insurance is going to be much less than FHA (not to mention it can be dropped when 80% LTV), no Upfront MIP, and it is less sensitive to Loan Level Pricing Adjustments.  

She needs to get a restraining order and out of the house. 

This is a sensitive subject.

Don't get talking about security deposits that's a sensitive subjectPrice points are much higher in Chicago in relation to Cleveland