After notification of denial, I won't respond to phone calls or pleading. 

A Lis Pendens or NOD should be included as a pleading in a foreclosure action. 

So overlooked and I am so guilty of this for so long by pride, what are others around you doing to be successful?

I'm guilty of looking for the greener grass in the town next door and missing out on deals in my own backyard.

If they know you own it, they will try to make you feel guilty for normally good business decisions.

Let him finish. 1) He's innocent until proven guilty in a court of law.

You can personally try to contact code enforcement and plead your case that your crooked property manager screwed you and that you are going to get compliant. 

LOL... the stories change and the names change to protect the guilty.

should i be as upfront as possible with both buyers of my primary home and sellers of my next home begging and pleading to close as soon as possible to each other so i can avoid being homeless and renting with a preggo wife lol?  

All nations are guilty of currency manipulation to some extent, but the US, Europe and Japan is more through economic action than in-your-face rate setting, i.e.