Did you verify these rates?

Re-verify numbers, and also seek input from others.

You can verify anyone’s active duty status at https://scra-w.dmdc.osd.mil/scra/#/homeThis site is a real time resource for verification of all Active Duty service members.If they aren’t on there as active duty, then they aren’t.

The lenders will normally not verify the funds until a couple days before the mortgage commitment. 

That last question is good too but I would not totally rely on the current owner and check with a local professional service or verify it myself.Who the hell is this guy anyway and why should I rely on his answer? 

Now how can I verify that it's a good deal?  

We are currently verifying if what we heard from the neighbor is accurate information.

I’d like to verify title/deed info on the property, Ditech’s Real phone numbers, etc. 

They would not verify...I'm lost at this point.

I've verified the amount she owes and whats needed to get it out of foreclosure, I'm just lost on how to proceed.