It does not matter how much money you start with, if you don't have a plan, pick a niche, get coaching and or mentoring, all the money in the world is going to lead to zero results.  

If you never see her doing any deals at all and she claims she's active and all you see is her coaching people, then, if you still want a coach, I would try to find one who was actively doing deals who you could, basically, be their assistant and see how everything works.

@Brian Gibbons had a audio recording here on BP of him coaching a student on negotiation skills, how to talk about price, etc.  

I have over 15 years real estate experience: as an MLS executive, a Productivity Coach for Keller Williams, and real estate investor. 

You are stuck so hire a coach or counselor to deal with your personal issues.

I did mitigate the risk by building a team of A-players and getting a coach with lots of experience to be my "insurance policy" but if I'd do it again I'd get a partner to share the load. 

Our pitching coach pointed out that even all-stars lose fairly regularly and to use the fear of failure to fuel my preparation/training habits.

I was previously a math teacher and basketball coach.

If not you might have to give them some life-skills coaching.

I always find it amazing people are willing to pay coaches and gurus so much money to get knowledge from these individuals who have never done business outside of the city they live.