I've seen many sketchy deals come together because a woman was involved in getting both parties to calm down and focus on their individual goals vs personality differences and creating a win-win situation for both parties.I wish I could find more women interested in this business to partner up with.

I've have plenty of upset neighbors calm down once I go in person, talk to them, listen to their complaints, and then offer solutions.

Beautiful country with 300 miles of beaches, a lovely forested interior with mountains up to 4,000 feet tall, waterfalls, caves, and plenty to do (surfing, kite surfing, snorkeling/scuba diving, boating, fishing, rock climbing, partying, relaxing on the beach).2.

Has everything calmed down now and have you been able to move forward to your next deal? 

That book helped me calm my fears

@Bill Plymouth First off, I’m glad you posted this, I have a feeling it’s a topic not discussed enough on professional forums.For me personally, it is anxiety, not depression, I’m definitely not an expert in this field, but I think it’s likely they have similar remedies.It’s already been mentioned several times and I couldn’t agree more that working out hard and consistently is the most helpful.Other things that help me are going out of my way to be more social then I feel like being, talking to people will typically calm me down.Cutting down or cutting out alcohol.Staying as busy as humanly possible, even being pissed off about losing a good deal will shake the anxiety loose and get the juices flowing.

The way that many sponsors operate and structuring waterfalls it makes more sense to sell at the end of the value add rather than the sunset of the loan.

I've seen folks put in double waterfalls, kickers, and all of the sort.

Plus I don’t want to really buy anything until the virus issue calms down.

It is easy to be calm in a serene setting.