Now they wont give us our money back even though they are the ones who changed their metrics on lending after approving us.

If an attorney needs to get involved i currently don't have one, can anyone recommend one in the Houston area if need be? 

Talk to your attorney, and if you dont have one, get one - as @Ken M. said, this is highly specific to the state and the circumstances.

If you want some revenue numbers for similar properties to the ones you're looking at or anything to use in underwriting feel free to reach out. 

We got one offer late last year, still listed for sale but content to keep operating and cash flowing Lessons learned?

One thing to note when getting conventional mortgages and spouses.There is a 10 limit per person for conventional financing.You can either do 10 conventional in each person's name which would be 20 mortgages for 2 people or if you do the mortgages jointly, will only allow 10 in total.My thoughts are not to own joint assets until you are both married. 

I see many situations where one generation wants to buy out a prior generation or, more typically, siblings.

One thing I wish I knew starting out was the true overhead of running a RE business it can be pricey if you don't run your numbers right.

@Lulu LueHUD has 2 online databases of lenders showing which ones have the most experience with 203k's. 

@Vince Au no one can predict the future.There are some interesting facts you should confirm for yourself (NEVER believe anything anyone posts here!).