Our manager at the job I used to work when I "traded my time for money" had a household income of probably $350,000-$400,000 per year --- she couldn't afford to go out and buy lunch two days before payday because she didn't have ANY money - she was flat broke - they spent every penny they made on cars, jewelry, clothes, purses, suits, watches, eating at expensive restaurants, etcAs you see, every persons situation is different - as @Ryan Cameron said, the first step is to work on getting your expenses under control- that makes your goal much more obtainable in a shorter time.I had a good job with great benefits, but I had other interests that I wanted to pursue - and I hated going to work every day - so I started working on leaving my 9-5 job - between adding income with rental property and reducing my monthly expenses, within a few years, I was able to leave a job I hated and spend my time doing whatever I wanted- As Thomas S. mentioned, a job is nothing more than trading our time for money - well, Time is the most valuable asset I have - and I wasn't willing to give it away so cheaply - my Time is more valuable than money - You see, it doesn't work in reverse, I can't buy more Time, I can't inherit more Time --- money is easy to acquire, our time is limited. 

There really isn't any way to "prove" he's moved in, other than maybe check the master bedroom closet for this clothes/shoes.

We are either cut from a different cloth or put on a pedestal where we are somehow better than they are because of the large profits we made or we got extremely lucky.

Items such as: clothing, tools, furniture, books, electronics, toys, kitchenware, etc.

We'll be using this same form to inspect your unit when you leave.Specifically, here's a list of items you should thoroughly clean before vacating:[ ] Floors[ ] sweep/mop laminate floors[ ] vacuum carpets and rugs (shampoo if necessary)[ ] mop kitchen and bathroom floors[ ] Walls, baseboards, ceilings, and built-in shelves[ ] Kitchen cabinets, countertops and sink, stove and oven--inside and out [ ] Refrigerator--clean inside and out, empty it of food[ ] Bathtubs, showers, toilets, and plumbing fixtures[ ] Doors, windows, and window coverings[ ] Other _________________________________________________________If you have any questions as to the type of cleaning we expect, please let us know.Please don't leave anything behind--that includes bags of garbage, clothes, food, newspapers, furniture, appliances, dishes, plants, cleaning supplies, or other items that belong to you.Please be sure you have disconnected phone and utility services, canceled all newspaper subscriptions, and sent the post office a change of address form.Once you have cleaned your unit and removed all your belongings, please call us to make arrangements to return all keys.

Buy some nice clothes.

Here's an example:Zillow took one of my listings - 18 Pondview Ave, Unit 1 in a 2 unit condo...https://www.zillow.com/homes/18-Pondview-Ave-Unit-...and combined it with 18 Pondview Ave, Unit 2, which was not for sale...https://www.zillow.com/homes/18-Pondview-Ave-Unit-...and create a new listing out of whole cloth. 

My monthly expenses: Monthly Expenses Item Name Budgeted Charity $120.00 $120.00 Debt Repayment Debt $1,300.95 $1,450.95 Housing House Warrenty $49.99 Mortgage $2,409.00 $2,458.99 Utilities Electricity $150.00 Gas $40.00 Internet $39.99 Cell Phone $120.00 ADT Alarm $47.99 Trash $50.00 Water $50.00 $497.98 *Food Grocery $800.00 Dog Food $100.00 $900.00 *Transportation Car insurance $245.00 Gas & Oil $240.00 Car Lease 1 $256.04 Car Lease 2 $391.17 Car Wash $15.95 $1,148.16 *Clothing Adults $25.00 Children $25.00 Cleaning/Laundry $0.00 $50.00 Medical/Health Dentist $54.00 Dog Insurance $36.48 Prescription Drugs $200.00 Health Insurance $0.00 Co-pays $25.00 $315.48 *Personal School Supplies $35.00 School Tuition $166.00 $201.00 Dining out / Recreation Entertainment $160.00 Spotify / Audible / Netflix / Hulu / Amazon $57.44 Dining out $140.00 $357.44Total expenses including debt repayment $7500

Their mark up on clothing is insane?

All the furniture, all the kitchen supplies, clothes in the closet with tags on still, bathroom supplies, etc. etc..