I can’t go see my brother at his house (a private residence, by the way), under the pretense that we both agree to see each other, without the risk of being handcuffed, arrested and thrown into a police car?

Are you just stopping by to collect rent or to make a citizens arrest?

Add 2 arrests as a principal agent to my stat sheet at work.2.

The rest who are on the street don’t want to be videotaped making an arrest.

I meant the lady needed the money because her daughter, who had 3 small children, had been arrested.

:As of July 11, 2019, the Human Rights Law prohibits discrimination in public and private housing based on a favorably resolved arrest record, an adjournment in contemplation of dismissal, a sealed conviction record, or a youthful offender adjudication.

Usually you need to give notice and then if they do it again they can be arrested.

If that doesn't work, you might have to go to the extent of calling the police and having him "trespassed" from the property - meaning that further trespass will subject him to arrest. 

I have personally handled dozens and dozens of homicides, arrested scores of murderers/rapists/robbers, been in multiple police car crashes blah blah blah.I say all of that to say to try relate that I am not a "risk averse" type of individual.

We tell potential tenants that we do not rent to felons, sex offenders, or with any sort of drug or assault arrest even if there is no conviction.