I work with a couple investor friendly title companies.

I’m a 28 year old married man with a 3 week old son.

Ask their customer service to walk you through the above options if needed.It shouldn't take more than a couple hours of research to try out the top platforms and identify which feels the best for you.

I was only with realize for maybe a couple weeks, so cant really speak on them. 

I've had to use Craigslist a couple times in a pinch because I didn't know anyone local and needed pictures asap. 

They are more useful IMO for getting chunks of equity right off the bat thru value add and then either realizing that equity by flipping it and using for a down payment on something bigger or hold a couple years and then sell at that point to do that then. 

I'm a couple day older than you on here. 

I don't remember that legal argument arising in the last couple of cases I was in, so it just may not have been addressed.   

A couple of us up here in the Bay Area are figuring out if someone could drive down a truck with supplies but I'm donating money first.

With that amount of equity and being in CA I think you have a couple decent options1.