We have been fortunate where our refinances have all been executed as planned, but having that backup plan is crucial and I think puts ones mind at ease.

My issue is I have no idea how much money I should save up and I have no idea the best way to ease into my goal. 

I specifically am looking to work with a Wholesaler to ease myself into learning some of the details necessary to become a successful investor. 

For ease of payment the Borrower may exercise the option to effect payment by direct deposit or electronic transfer of funds into the account of Lender as specified in writing.PrepaymentThe Borrower may prepay this Note in full or in part at any time without premium or penalty.

I think your plan is a safe way to ease into real estate investing; however make sure you purchase your first home with the eyes of an investor meaning get the best deal possible.

This community makes me feel welcomed and at ease. 

When house hacking a 4-plex, you really should be looking to be living for "free" (at least).I suspect you put less work/negotiating into the deal than ideal, because of your EASE of funding.

In this age of Internet and public records and ease of access, It's very difficult to stay off the radar.Everybody leaves a digital footprint somewhere.Here are some basic tools I use to find people.Free first:Whitepages/anywho/zabasearch/Google is the most underrated tool to finding a person.

Range on the exterior wall for ease of ventilation with a range hood.Make the area where the sink is into a breakfast nook that looks out over the back yard.

Getting caught up in a poorly maintained building can create some tension (that I haven't experience yet, thank goodness), between Owner and Manager.