I think if you did this I would just give pool and hot tub access to the people in the main house to alleviate any confusion. 

Converted the upstairs full bath (which was accessible from the hall and primary bedroom) into two full baths, changing this from a 3 bed 1.5 bath to a 3 bed, 2.5 bath.

The business committed to provide to me a closing of 3 land deals, membership portal with everything you need from start to finish, unlimited transactional funding available, first 8,000 mailers paid (print & postage), daily live office hours, unlimited deal reviews, weekly live deal reviews, recruited & fully trained sales team (first 90 days free), discounted sales team after 90 days, recruited & fully trained operations team ready to go, discounted operations team, professional buying & selling websites + monthly hosting, professional buying & selling logos created, trello advanced templates & training, datatree research subscription, access to private facebook group.

I also have access to a VA loan, have any of you leveraged the VA loan putting zero down?

Work with someone that has access to Minoan or HostGPO, and shop at HomeGoods, Tj Maxx, HomeSense, and Ikea.

Accessing money from the stock market is expensive, whereas you can access the money from your real estate by collecting rent, cashing out equity, a line of credit, selling and investing in multiple properties, etc.I have a relative who has over $2 million in the stock market.

First after their initial introduction they split everyone into groups and you don't get access to talk to anyone who is already in the group.

I am retired and collecting a pension and access to 401k funds (1099-R income)...so I am wondering how all of the information I am hearing about tax benefits as it pertains to W2 incoming applies to my 1099-R income. 

Additionally, you'll have access to less competitive rates, usually. 

If you don't have any leads or don't know where to start here are a couple suggestions: ask brokers who people use for debt, find a mortgage broker as they have access to different buckets of capital, use a website like CoStar to look at closed transaction over the last 12 months and see who they used for debt.