I am wondering if any of the following surrogates could replace my presence at the site.

I am planning an annual retreat in September, and it will be kid friendly and specifically structured for mommas.

That brother then went to the house and gave the tenants a verbal notice that they would have through end of February to vacate the property (this was at the beginning of January, momma passed away at the beginning of December).

Maybe it's state specific where you are doing licensed work without a license that opens you up to surrogate on? 

When this guy told you to "come down there" he likely meant for you to meet him at the door, shake his hand, maybe trade a few harsh comments about each others' mommas before you stripped down and went at it under Queensberry Rules.

The decedent did not name someone to be the executor of his estate;The decedent named someone as the executor BUT that person passed away or cannot act due to incapacity, incarceration, felony conviction, unwillingness to act, etc;The executor was subsequently removed by the court or he resigned.Priority Additionally, according to Surrogate’s Court Procedures Act Section 1418(1), there is a hierarchy of which individual is allowed to receive the Letters of Administration CTA in the following order:(a) to a sole beneficiary or if he be dead to his fiduciary;-this is when there is only beneficiary in the will who stands to inherit the deceased’s entire estate.

Momma didn't raise no fool!!

I currently own a property in Commerce MI that my family live in and cant be used as an investment vehicle  =(  Momma says no..I had this shift in thinking about 3 months ago about where my life should be headed. 

In some states this office is known as the circuit court, surrogate's court, or the orphans' court.

Papa was out gettin his drink on .. momma got tired of his crap and locks him out like the dog he is .