Here are some thoughts on your questions:License Reciprocity: It’s great that Illinois offers reciprocity with Colorado, so getting licensed here should be a smoother process for you.

The interactions were mainly me sending places I wanted to go look at, and making offers with very little guidance from them, ultimately only to lose out on the bid.All in all, I've learned that being this early in my investing journey, I need an agent who is not only familiar with investing (or is an investor) but will reciprocate the same dedication and drive. 

Perhaps some reciprocal is to tone it down and not come in hot as my teenagers call it!   

I have since strongly advised my tenants that I do not disclose their personal info to anyone who calls me I expect reciprocity and my personal info is not to be given out to anyone.I’ve actually had agents approach me either at home or if I’m at my rentals and tell me the same I have a buyer for your house pitch.

I know they love me and I reciprocate.

In 5 years I expect there to be a reciprocal agreement like an interstate compact regarding wholesaling.  

Take care of them, it will be reciprocated. 

Does anyone know what state in the U.S offers reciprocity agreements to multiple states?

You will get 1000% more experience this way, for the same money, and if you go above and beyond for that flipper, they may partner with you or even pay you for your work (principle of reciprocity). 

I plan to hang my license with my uncle’s brokerage, and since Virginia has lenient reciprocity rules, this will allow me flexibility in both states.