How have you educated yourself on Infinite Banking, and on other concepts of financial planning that people could harness as part of their strategy as an alternative to IB? 

@Zachary DealIn the Tahoe Reno, NV market we are seeing more interest in MTR because of the influx of tech and manufacturing jobs with Tesla building the Semi-truck factory, Panasonic building batteries, and Redwood Battery recycling the batteries.

My questions are around how to evaluate if its a safe/stable investment alternative? 

You could have several alternatives as to how to purchase.

To find places with high rental demand, good economic circumstances, and room to develop, conduct in-depth market research.Examine your alternatives for financing, including conventional mortgages, private lenders, FHA, VA, and partnership loans.

Comparing the live-in flip approach to refinancing, the former offers the potential for higher profits through sweat equity but demands significant time and effort for renovations and alternative living arrangements during the process.

Considering your equity and cash reserves, exploring alternative financing options like traditional mortgages or partnerships might provide a more balanced approach to acquiring your investment property while mitigating risk.

Alternatively, you could open unsecured business credit lines and cards to tap for short-term use to cover down payments and closing costs (there's a company that specializes in helping real estate investors do this).

(alternatively does Vanguard offer self directed IRAs?)

Either make sure your partner gets 100 hours and you do 101, that way you get the benefit ;) alternatively you both can do 500 hours and both get the benefit.