From my experience the first team member to recruit will be a local Project Manager-someone who wants to help you long term as your eyes in the field and boots on the ground. 

In my experience, most agents are lazy and don't put in a lot of effort (maybe they just do RE part time). 

@Amanda Lindsay Which property management software did you end up going with and how is your experience?

For instance - I am looking to see if anyone has experience with installing recessed lighting into a horse hair plaster ceiling and if anyone could offer advice on the process I should take when doing so? 

As title says, looking for some first hand experience, positive or negative; for working with mynd.co.

Are there any local meet ups or websites on where to find more people who have a moderate level of experience meaning they are  somewhat experienced but still looking to collaborate and network with more inexperienced investors like myself.

I'm happy to share my investment and lending experience.

So I missed out on taking a year off with my wife and kids and just fully enjoying the time we could experience together. 

Find someone who can help you dial down on what YOU want as an asset, and has experience with that kind of property. 

Most lenders will vary how aggressive they will get based on the experience of the operator (you), but I don't know any that will lender to someone who's never done a spec build like you're contemplating.