I am wondering if my first steps (past the education part) is to build a network of people who know, like, and trust me through posting content like newsletters, articles, podcasts, doing webinars, going to events (aka build my brand), or, should I first find a deal and then raise capital?

A great way to start is by attending RE events and joining a local investors association.

In addition to those I would also suggest making a commitment to going to local meet ups and networking events in your area.

I need help to understand the whole sequence of events that happen in wholesale and what a WHOLESALER should do and what not.

Also, we will be having a free REI networking event Feb 6th if you're in the Milwaukee area.

My goal is to build a business that serves corporate clients; construction and infrastructure development teams, medical/education faculty, corporate relocation, family emergency relocation services, sports travel/events,corporate and industryand I want to learn from those of you who are doing this successfully and are willing to share actionable ideas for how I can be successful in offering value to these groups.Thank you!!

In any event you can see what the SEC thinks of modernization here:https://www.sec.gov/news/press...I have read of late that small family offices can pool non-accredited investor money to qualify that entity as an accredited investor. 

I highly suggest getting to some local meetup groups...here is BPs list:  https://www.biggerpockets.com/forums/521-real-estate-events-...I also have a full list of the chicago meetups that I can share with you too if that'd be helpful.

If you're looking to network with multifamily investors and service providers I host multiple events a month.

Check out the "Events" tab here on BiggerPockets to find some near you.