Wait for her to bring it up.Don’t focus only on sacrifices and future payoffs.Highlight near-term benefits, not just “someday we’ll be rich.”Don’t force or bribe her to attend meetups.Invite her but dont push itDon’t try to teach them to analyze deals.Focus on what excites themFYI I had to deploy before my wife got on board.

You might also look into learning about BRRRR (Buy, Rehab, Rent, Refinance, Repeat), a popular method for scaling a portfolio.Network Locally: Engaging with local investors and attending meetups in markets like Dallas or Fort Worth can provide insights and connections that are invaluable.You'll find that momentum grows quickly.

I am making it a priority to attend at least one a month to grow my network and learn. 

Are you attending the RPOA annual Expo next week in GR from the 21-23rd... it’s free?

.: Found mine while attending a real estate/small business tax conference.  

A great way to start is by attending RE events and joining a local investors association.

I live in Denver, CO and invest out of state, due to cost.

In my opinion, the best "first step" is to find a local REIA to attend. 

Have you tried attending your local REIA's and real estate meet-up groups?

You're likely better off attending your local REI meet-up to see if you can find an investor who has house-hacked or is currently house-hacking their primary home.