These are professionals with additional training and a stricter code of ethics.

Also is it ethical/legal to use internet sources like go find me or kickstarter?

I'd then create a post on BiggerPockets saying where you are from and that you're looking for advice on how to find an ethical mentor in your area.

Laws change , etc ...We like to promote ethical and legal practices on here .

She would still make a small commission, but it would be more ethical and productive for you.

If that home was constructed at the time of contract then this is ethically on par with a scam.  

With the valuable skills and work ethic I've found in the beer industry, I'm confident that I have the foundational tools to manage myself and my time to find financial freedom in the future. 

Not sure of the ethics on that one given the need for an independent voice when it comes to the valuation, but some have nonetheless.Hope the real world answer explains it.Stephanie

That is stupid.Do what gives you ethical motivated seller leads as cheap as possible that increases your deal rate as high as possible.Remember, I am not here trying to convince you to do what I think you should do.

These are professionals with additional training and a stricter code of ethics.