NSPIRE will be used for all HUD funded housing programs.With NSPIRE, inspectors for HUD-assisted and HUD-insured housing will be able to conduct objective, defensible, and consistent assessments to evaluate housing conditions.

People funding in 2nd position behind hard money at 75%+ CLTV on flips with aggressive ARV's, people funding EMDs and closing costs for "wholesalers" who have completed 1-2 deals and dont have $5k to their name, etc.

This sounds like your situation, Brody.It may be easier and more convenient to find one lender that provides both the purchase and rehab funds but don’t feel that your hands are tied.

Scheduled closing for 3 April.Because Closing would be on a monday I decided to deliver cash to bank to wire the funds early.

I work with several growing real estate investors to help them fund their projects and would be happy to connect virtually or in person.

Not to mention, you've now become reliant on a 3rd party for income streams, and yes, they do occasionally run short of funding and, yes, they have no compunction with telling you to pound sand until they get new funding. 

Where if we use our own personal funds (not funds acquired from our spouses or from our marriages) our business would be strictly ours and our spouses have no claim to it should one of us ever divorce from our spouse. 2) Invest with my husband using the equity from our home but I want to have a business structure that is separate from the marriage where we are both partners and we are paid for our individual contributions to the business.What type of business partnership could I have with my husband that can be setup in that way?

Deal with contractor timelines, and bankers funding strategies

You have to explain it to the listing agent who doesn't get it, who then sends that to the seller, by telling them it's not that you have no money, but this is a right afforded to you based on your service to the country and you can also show proof of funds that you have money, but are choosing not to use it as a downpayment because you want to do reno with it.I would use your VA, that's what it's there for.

If your intent/interest is not in buy and hold and you find a better use for the funds by selling then explore that option.