This will give you the opportunity to ask questions and get live feedback right there on the spot.Once you have done the above - then you just have to do it. 

I'm not familiar with California but I know living in Florida, the closer you are to the ocean the more expensive it is to live.

My wife and I live in Chicago and vacation in San Diego every year.  

We travel for work (healthcare) and chronically live out of MTRs, so it will be our first time operating a shorter term, but won’t be an entirely foreign situation to us.

Stationed there almost three years, sold with profit and tax break for how long we lived in the house.

Adding Square FootageIncreasing the usable living space of a home, such as by finishing a basement, converting an attic, or adding extensions, can dramatically raise the ARV.

Living in Iowa how could we pick our own papaya?

A quick google search of your state indicates the following regaridng timeline to give notice:30 daysFor tenants who have lived in the property for less than one year, or have a lease for less than one year60 daysFor tenants who have lived in the property for more than one year but less than two years, or have a lease for more than one year but less than two years90 daysFor tenants who have lived in the property for more than two years, or have a lease for at least two yearsI'd definitely touch base with an eviction attorney in your state to ensure you are not missing any steps and to have the attorney as a backup option in case the tenant does not vacate easily.

Your scenario is unique in that you are a 1st time flipper and you live/want to do this flip in NC.

It frees you up to focus on living your life and acquiring more property.