If they are in a challenging financial position, I might offer to assist with moving costs.

Was it a positive experience?

My favorite book and the one that got me started was Set For Life by Scott Trench (a Bigger Pockets book).Also, if you are in the position to do so, house hacking is a great way to get started! 

We also made a deal with the second position lender to get some of his invested capital back which would've been completely lost in the foreclosure process.

I am not really in a position to purchase my first property just yet, but I am getting all my financials in order and saving up to hopefully buy something next year.

The second lien also means you’re in a junior position if the buyer defaults, so you’ll want to be aware of that risk too.Overall, owner financing can be a win-win, but it’s important to have everything structured properly to protect your interests.Cheers,William

In the same vein, when I argue back to defend my position I don't attack them.

Comes up positive?

Very few are in financial positions where tax strategies should be prioritized in their real estate business outside of perhaps timing and tax consequences of selling real estate. 

They can help explain your position to the court and the building department.How did you find this contractor?