This is common stuff, I'm not sure what the goal is or how you are "helping" you might be stirring the pot for no reason as nothing is likely to happen unless the elderly lady wants to take some action. :)

Only litigation over the years is unwinding partnerships were minor partners were taking pot shots.. and those all got settled in mediation..

Too many hands in the pot always leads to disaster.  

Knowing your tenants is good and bad... they "should" behave... but you feel handicapped when they don't... are you really going to evict one of your friends when he loses his part time job at McDonalds for smoking pot in the bathroom and can't pay his rent for 3 months?

Pot luck is available on Craig's list of course... but it take a bit of sorting out.

We have a total of two park benches in the entire neighborhood , and they are located in an area you'd never go , for fear of getting run over by all the speeders and reckless drivers that the HOA does nothing about.

Run away...run far away.If this was a poker game, you'd be looking at a "Jack High",and still feeding the pot.  

The goal was to self fund with our salaries but just in case we had the back up.After 6 months, we were very well off, my new job was going well so not only had that pot of funds not been touched it grew.

Don't hit it with the weed whacker.This stove top is for residential pots and pans, not 30 gallon commercial boiling pots.Everything I cover is in the lease and specifically covered.

OK now I have seen everything.Went to one of my properties to look at an issue with the disposer.Opened up the dishwasher and there, amongst all the dishes, pots and pans, is a round rubber thing.