I might be having trouble trying to convey an idea about real estate investing.

That's not nearly enough time to get into trouble, or get tired of owning...

Consider yourself lucky (as I was) that you collected all your rent and had no trouble collecting rents during the pandemic.

because the paper will be a C grade at best.Lenders get in trouble when they hold too many loans on the books, can't sell them, no one wants them and then while your books are over leveraged the market takes a stiff downturn and now as a lender loans you hold start defaulting and people missing payments. 

Facebook knows your troubles, your favorite food, and music, your crush, who your friends are, who you hang out with, and who you will hang out with.

If you are on the fence with respect to purchasing real estate, then you can always add language in the sales agreement permitting the assignment to an entity you will create for the purchase the real estate.

Either way, some people just aren't worth the trouble.

security, fencing, a guard dog inside or someone stays there at night $1500carry cost of your loan/tax/insurance$?

These folks that think they are going to build long term buy and hold are the ones that can run into lots of trouble. 

I might be having trouble trying to convey an idea about real estate investing.