But other than telling a prospective tenant that "this is not the house for you if you have a problem with the security cameras", how have you handled the situation when they bring it up in regards to it being an "invasion of privacy"?

But the mix of individuals, LLC entities, and the SDIRA as beneficiaries made it a hard-stop no-go situation. 

With Passco who missed a projection, they discussed what changes they have made and are making to correct the situation. 

Retirement accounts could be a good option depending on the situation.

If you need to know a broker that can handle all of these situations, message me.

I am not really a fan of the program because we have a very nice situation in our current home.Putting 20% down for a conventional loan is a steep task financially so I do not think that is an option plus I have been told by many of my friends with multiple MF homes to never use your own money to get into one.Then there is always using the equity we have built up in this current MF home we live in to purchase the next - I am not sure how that works but have done some research on home equity loans and believe that would be another option.Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

You'll want to discuss those options with a real estate focused accountant for your personal situation.

My understanding is that if there was no will that the wife should inherit everything in that situation.

Development in the best situation carries a ton of risk.  

Well, it seems unfortunate and a tough situation!