Of course blaming me, complaining about other people, talking about her medical issues and son and how they need a place without stairs and need to move, and on and on.How are other landlords handling this?  

I know for DSCR especially, lots of lenders don't like sober homes unless there's truly no medical services offered. 

It’s just 7 miles from the beach, 2 miles from a large new hospital and medical campus, and within 2 miles of the county government offices.

this property is zoned for office / medical facility, multi use but has a residential house on it.would love advice from the community on how to1. analyze potential2. source funding3. evaluate market value of property for purchase4. building the development team

While they tend to offer lower returns than stocks or real estate, they provide stability and consistent income.Another potential avenue is health savings accounts (HSAs), which offer a triple tax benefit—contributions are tax-deductible, earnings grow tax-free, and withdrawals are tax-free if used for qualified medical expenses.

Those would be disastrous, as building would cease and cause financial crisis for landlords.

Our current criteria are: no evictions, no bankruptcy, income 2.5x rent, max of 5 non-medical related collection items, and no collections related to unpaid rent or other past rental related obligations.

There are programs that offer 100% financing for many different people like Veterans, First time home buyers, (Certain states), Medical professional loans also offer 100% (Anyone with a Medical license).You also have Second Home or Vacation home which only requires 10% down.

Had to cancel my trip in the last minute as my wife is in a medical emergency.

The medical industry is fueled by referrals, so you'll need to get out there and build relationships that will keep your facility full.