If people talk in a hurry and have a strangely knowledgable vocab it's pretty obvious they are time wasters.  

We see this every once in a while when we buy a house and I agree, it is strange.

Strangely, they never ask how and have never offered any advice.

What a strange layout!

I definitely see where you're coming from and I find it strange that every reply so far has been to "buy buy buy".

It’s a little strange that she changed the wording from “closing” to “recording” in counter offer, I hope it’s true that “next day of recording” is equivalent to “same day of closing” in California. 

If this is strange territory or confusing I would consider interviewing a few CPAs/EAs going forward.

I find that strange because in my 25 year adult life, I have never intentionally or accidentally punched a hole in any door or wall.Also speaking to point 2 about charging for time, you are best to hire everything done.

That said, jumping ship too often is no way to make money either.So no, I don't think getting emotionally attached, one way or the other is strange one bit.

It sounds strange but even though VA/FHA/Fannie Mae/Freddie Mac/etc. allow something like this a lender may have what we call an "overlay" concerning this.