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@Robert Gunther, seems like you've become emotionally attached to buying this property. 

Maybe hire a property manager to do it and take the emotion out of it. 

PROs: 1) You will learn more about how property management works, which will improve your chances of hiring a good PMC in the future.2) You will save PMC fees3) You'll know your properties better than any PMCCONs:1) You may make costly PMC mistakes: tenant screening, legal, evictions, maintenance, being too nice, not being on top of things2) More time3) You may make emotional decisions insted of business decisions

I appealed to the owners emotions as it had been in the family for many years.

But, if you are competing with other investors and not 'Home Buyers' (more emotional and less numbers driven), then you can stand a chance. 

I got him legitimately ESA verified through my doctor (no scam websites) because I have been diagnosed with multiple emotional disorders which he legitimately helps me with. 

Don't buy on emotion, run the numbers to make sure you can be profitable. 

By fate, my grandmother wanted to sell her farm, which I emotionally was attached to so I bought it.

My guess is the time and effort it took on your part up to this point, has made this into an emotional decision when it should be entirely financial.