Without a realistic workable plan you will continue to spin your wheels without success.

It could be heard to be running, but apparently its motor was spinning but not pumping. 

(if so, how much)What do other STR owners do with the cash their properties spin off?  

I was told it had to be single family and heard from others its a one and done... now I feel like im spinning in circles with all types of info.

Your lender's risk is at 75 or 80 percent of the value you (called loan to value) are paying for the total including the "extra" land you want to spin off.

Ask these questions up front so that you do not spin your wheels with a lender who says they can offer financing but may not know their own or other investors guide lines...As far as your debt do not pay it off just continue to make payments paying off dent can sometimes lower fico scores due to lack of revolving accounts and lack of open and active trade lines with high number of months revolving. 

Go out to the street and look at the water meter while you are not using any water and see if meter is still spinning.

Starlink could be the catalyst that launches it into profitability and with a potential spin-off, SpaceX has massive potential.

Turn the power off in one unit at a time and go look and see which meter is spinning.

Add to it that they likely have several properties under management and my mind spins thinking of their operation.I would urge you, for your own benefit, to have a property manager manage your property and, if needed or once you have the right scale, have an asset manager (or a PM that does both but identifies them as separate items with fees for services provided) manage the rest of it (like tax and insurance payments.