I’d recommend listening to the straight up Chicago investor podcast for local information, going to the variety of meetups that are in this great city, and meeting a lot of the people posting here. 

I totally get it – sometimes it's just about being there for people when they’re ready to listen.

Long time listener first time caller.

Listening carefully and asking open-ended questions like “What’s most important to you in this deal?”

Actual experience I'll listen to.

Skills or qualities in no particular order: Communication, patience, empathy, listening ear, backbone, resilience, determination, organization, work ethic, lead a team, thick skin, time management, trusts their instinct, and all-around good ethics! 

Very easy to get pulled into a bad property or an area you’re not comfortable with by listening to the wrong people.

I faced numerous hurdles and stressful moments, but I persevered and built a successful approach.To tackle this challenge, I recommend starting early by building relationships and seeking investors.

But I wouldn't say they would help you anymore than just listening to podcast on wholesaling.

Some had clearly heard about buying a laundromat on YouTube and just wanted someone to listen to their brilliant plan to buy five laundromats in the next year.