Body language, facial features, & tone of voice will help get a sense of what the person you're talking to is really feeling. 

For more information, you need to seek out a local attorney to tell you about local compliance issues, and how likely local judges are willing to throw the hammer at you for facially discriminatory language.

Contact the police each time and practice your innocent and surprised facial expressions, in the event the neighbors complain to you that the cops were called

Talk with her in person if you can so you hear not only her words, phrasing and tone of voice, but so you can also see the non-verbal communication in her facial expression and body language.

Not of your car.Not your baby Not a group photo.And not with your spouse/significant other or BFFNot you with a mean or angry facial expression.Not an action shot with you climbing Half-dome at Yosemite 100 yards away.This is my test: if I saw you at a real estate meeting, could I spot and recognize you?

The walls looked like they had grown facial hair, it was not an improvement.  

I think it is easily overcome by a good attitude and hard work.when I started in 74 in the game  tatoos were only on sailors.. the talk was should you have any facial hair. and studies said facial hair would be a turn off to some folks.