Happy to work through any issues or scenarios or run some numbers for you.

Its great to connect with multiple lenders and see which one offers the best rates & service for your specific scenario.

Software is a common question on BiggerPockets.

Find a win-win scenario that allows them to move and find a home they love living in while allowing you to find tenants who will appreciate your rental.  

I try to teach my kids the importance of investing and show them real life scenarios any chance I can.

This has become more common place over the past few years.  

Even if one partner takes a more active role, both should understand the motivations and risks associated with investing.It's common for couples to struggle if they're not aligned on investment goals.

Things I would like to include are cameras in common areas, Inspection, Cleaning, Noise, Parking, Personal Spaces like fridge and cabinets space, bi-weekly rent collection.Please reply if your near Charlotte, NC for a free lunch. 

It’s very common in my area to have roommates so that could be an option to maximize income from both units.

If that risk does not exist for all economic scenarios (or you add value), you can always sell and be fine.