The majority of the time cracking and deflection is a symptom of external issues happening around the property.

We looked all over with a handpicked boutique realtor. 

I think an important corollary to what you're saying is to be confident in your ability to implement your strategy, or abandon it altogether and change course if needed due to external factors. 

For this reason, many of the REI CRMs is based on Podio.2) An external reason.

Unfortunately neither my CPA or my attorney (both of which are very good) have experience yet in this area so looking for external help.

If I can find a SFH deal that is on par with TH, then I would certainly go for it - but I would not skip a TH just because of HOA concerns, nor would I skip a SFH due to lawn care and external maintenance concerns...

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Ed LeeIf you have an efficient gas furnace already and the heat is forced air, you can add a central cooling unit into the plenum (with an external compressor like a heat pump) to provide central air to the building.This should be a more cost efficient solution than replacing the existing system.

I have shower towers with water jets in place in some of my rentals and external bar shower systems in others.