Confronting your wife, kicking out the aunt and causing a fight will be ugly and it won't work. 

The Bush administration developed an effort to confront the worst U.S. financial crisis in decades, describing a plan that could cost taxpayers hundreds of billions of dollars to buy up bad mortgages and other toxic debt that has unhinged Wall Street.

The embedded latex paint doesn't stand a chance when confronted with these hyper-small water droplets.SURFACTANTCY WORKS FOR MOLD TOOSo my point in the surfactantcy example above is that when you use dish soap (which also increases the surfactantcy of water) you are able to pick up MORE of the smaller mold compounds (spores, hyphal fragments, etc.) without using a lot of "liquid live water" and without saturating the wall - as you do with bleach.

If their existing place is trashed or damaged, I tell them I forgot some paperwork in the car and just leave; no confrontations.

Since they typically leave pretty quickly once confronted, I haven't called the police...

When I confronted her she said that he never stays more than 48 hours.

My wife is a feeler, everything is about emotion and people's feelings and avoiding confrontation, etc... she would make a horrible wholesaler.  

Are you indifferent when confronted with so much outrage?

This is why I want to really confront all these gurus who make things a million times easier than it sounds!

Plus I think it would send two signals, the first signal being to potential criminals that they are on watch the second signal to the tenants that this is a safe environment.Reminds me of a new show I watched today, Flip Men, they bough a meth property amd they took steps to clean up the property and the surrounding area by: installing a motion light, upkeeping the back alley, confronting and taking pictures of the drug dealers...sorry off track, wifi...