We had a verbal confirmation that we were the leading offer and someone else substantially raised their offer and we didn't get it.

There is substantial risk of fraud when an investor relies solely on the unregulated statements of an unrelated third party.

You and your wife should both already have substantial incomes, yet your net worth is completely upside down because you're not in control of your spending.You and your wife are not willing to house hack.  

your saying the property is worth substantially more than that so it should not have an issue appraising for your FHA 203k  correct.so simply write a contract for 391k with seller paying the lien out of their proceeds you get a loan for 391k plus 50k or 441k  and off you go.. every one gets what they have negotiated for.I don't see this as any more complicated than that.. other than your making it seem complicated liens are paid off from sellers proceeds all the time..

There must be five or six now.Part of the strategy on claiming CCA will depend on how you hold the property (i.e. directly in your name or via a corporation) and your planned length of hold.When you hold property in your own name, the CCA recapture upon disposition can hurdle you into another, sometimes substantially, higher tax bracket {BTW:  The recapture has an inclusion rate, in your income, of 100%; it is not taxed at 100% ;-) }.  

Borrower shall not commit waste or destroy, damage or substantially change the Property or allow the Property to deteriorate, reasonable wear and tear excepted.

There isnt substantial employment within a 30 minute drive.

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