Perhaps special legislation was passed because, if possible, it would alleviate FEMA's burden immensely if a large percentage of people are able to have a means of finding a new home themselves as opposed to overwhelming the limited FEMA capabilities. 

This should help alleviate the bad blood at this point.

Biggest question you can’t put a price on, what would selling alleviate stress wise? 

At the very least you can alleviate the cat problem in the unit.

I know in NYC, there are programs to help alleviate that burden for seniors, not sure about Nassau. 

While it may not be traditional it alleviates problems like you're dealing with on-change over...

To alleviate confusion as well, and make sure we're talking about the same lease option...

I believe the problem is that they assume since you are married you should have the same primary residence; perhaps going to different banks would alleviate this issue?

If you find out that you can do a better deal with something else, sell the property and do a 1031 exchange for a multi-family (to alleviate capital gains taxes).

Yet, people choose to take prescriptions that cost hundreds of dollars a month to alleviate the condition rather than cure it.