I know you asked a question and you are looking for an answer on the question you asked... but consider this.If a toddler lives in a house right on a busy highway, and the only thing in between that kid and raging cars zooming by is a little gate that is locked... and that little runt asks you "Yo mister, how do I open this gate", are you going to explain to him how to open said gate, or are you going to tell him, "don't open the gate, it is dangerous".Right?

Purely theoretical fantasy at this point, though it did happen in my lifetime (I was a toddler at the time).

we slept 3 toddlers and 2 adults in there last weekend.

Unfortunately, I couldn't afford all that debt, so I sold the house, paid off all the credit card debt and had about $6000 left over.I took that $6000 and bought a condo to live in with my toddler son.  

We have three young toddlers, and they will grow up with memories on our acreage.

I just started this process a month ago and am doing my best to find all my available free time for research, (which isn't easy with a full-time job and a toddler at home!)

And yeah, i get-it, YouTubbers operate in a polarized world of "BEST ever" or "OMG WERE ALL GONNA DIE" and it's not there fault, it isn't, it's the people watching with the intellect of a toddler not keeping in mind those people SELL content for a living.

We have a toddler and a Golden retriever (a second toddler). 

Our toddler loves to help baking and cooking, anything really, and pulling a chair up to the island works great.

I am in the same situation I am still living in my one bedroom condo with my wife, toddler and newborn.