Also, which local meetups would be the best place to meet someone with this type of experience. 

As an owner-occupier, you can pay more than an investor would, but as I said above, you are going to be a little hamstrung in return rents unless you can get 3 other units and then that is a do you want to live with three tenants that close when you have two kids.Find some local real estate investor meetups in the area and you will meet a lot of house hackers who can tell you their stories.

And now you have access to me and my people (and of course you can meet your own people)! 

Let me know how I can help and also would love to meet

Anyone have any group meet ups that happen around the area?

I'd suggest meeting people in person and investing in B properties or better in growing markets.

Our focus is on cash-flowing properties, particularly multifamily properties that meet the 1% rule.

Where are the places that I can meet someone who I can potentially work with?

I had a meeting with a representative from Prime Corporate Services about their tax planning and strategies.

I would suggest that you find some local meet-ups in your area and start attending.