What if my Father does not have the estate take any distributions until the 5th and final year?

Proper techniques and caution needs to be applied to this specific method.  

(I contacted the bank and they stated that there is no distribution. the funds are released directly to me, but they suggested I contact the creator of the 401k)).

Net funds are distributed to account of choice. 

Lastly, if I want to become "B" in the scenario as an investor, what are some of the techniques used to find "A" seller and "C" buyers quickly and promptly, in order to arrange the transaction?

Fortune named him the “original hippie entrepreneur” in 2002, and he coined the phrase “restorative economy”Here’s a great TED talk on what must occur:The Third Industrial Revolution: A Radical New Sharing EconomyA distributed, non-centralized, internet of things based sharing economy.Productivity globally has been declining for 40 years.

I want borrow $50k per person from my family and friends with a Interest rate of 10% annually (distributed quarterly or monthly) to purchase and rehab a deal, stabilize the property, and put debt on it from Fannie Mae.

Were you to do this your entire IRA account (the account that purchased the property) would be considered to be immediately distributed in full and you would owe taxes and penalties on the full amount.

You could even ask them for several business cards and tell them you will distribute them to potential buyers. 

., one that is only invested in stocks or mutual funds), the distribution rules are the same.