(And when there is a nonpayment, don't go confront them in person alone or you can wind up dead in a crawl space.. it really happens!) 

I feel that I have given both parties much sympathy throughout so that the deal can flourish and finalize and at this time do see where each is coming from as I would want a form of security if I were the seller and I would also understand not wanting to 1st deviate from the contract (as the buyer) and second not wanting to place EMD for a property that I would want a walk through on after a lengthy and albeit slightly confrontational eviction with the tenant.This is where my issue lies.At some point one or both parties has to bend!

Be firm but not confrontational. 

You don't want to be confrontational but you also cannot give in just because somebody is trying to bully you.

Our tenants called them back when one room still had fleas a few days later, and then the fleas were gone.I'm not sure what you're trying to get out of confronting the landlord/manager.

What are you going to do when you confront a thief?

Being confrontational or putting the hammer down usually leads to push back and headaches.

If by chance this happens, it is best to not confront the beast but to keep your distance until the courts can set it free!

When you have a no pet policy your best option when confronted with a applicant saying they have a service animal is to not make an issue of the fact they have a animal.

Basically You confront the tenant tell them “ I’m sorry it appears you are not happy with the rental I have a happy clause which allows you to walk away from the lease free and clear because it is not a good fit for you . “