Also I prefer multifamily because it's easier to find cash flow which is generally more appealing to young guys like you and I, since it can fund your lifestyle and also make it easier to qualify for your next loan.

Redeploy capital into the stock market, real estate syndications, lifestyle, etc. 

How you’d like to accomplish it that best fits in with your goals, lifestyle, and family.

As stated above factor number one to factor would be your lifestyle, each of those cities is going to bring you something different.

As well as learn about where you work and the type of lifestyle you desire to point you in the right direction when it comes to towns to focus on.

What I am finding however, is that even though we make "good money", I am not very happy with my current lifestyle.

@Ryan JohnsonIndustry, lifestyle, government, and spillover from larger nearby towns and states usually drive population growth.

However, with that multitude of knowledge I've gained (and still searching and learning) my biggest concern now is after I accept the offer, relocate, and start getting paid I want to ENSURE that I dont suffer from "Lifestyle Creep" and focus all of my money on preparing myself and my bank account for getting started in real estate investing.So my question is this,Should I seek a financial planner or an accountant to help me manage my finances to achieve my goals in real estate investing? 

However, with that multitude of knowledge I've gained (and still searching and learning) my biggest concern now is after I accept the offer, relocate, and start getting paid I want to ENSURE that I dont suffer from "Lifestyle Creep" and focus all of my money on preparing myself and my bank account for getting started in real estate investing.So my question is this,Should I seek a financial planner or an accountant to help me manage my finances to achieve my goals in real estate investing?

In terms of my realistic personal bandwidth over the next 3-5 years, LTR may be a better fit for my lifestyle.