The yard is full of car parts and furniture (or I like to think of it as potential). 

So a brief backstory: army spouse, business/accounting background, moving several states (two time zones) away, four young children (6 and under), do not plan to work when we move (not anytime soon anyway).My husband and I only have this 1 property that was built in 2013 but will be looking to invest more down the line.

Luckily my children are both 2 and younger so i have some time before i reach that point.After my shift in thinking i read rich dad, poor dad and confirmed i was not indeed crazy. 

Showing children that you love your wife and that she loves you and that there is no separation in what Mom says and what Dad says is the best example you could set.You're on your way.

I've bought some nice guns and furniture pieces, but have never bid on real estate that way.

I do have children who will spend summers with me.

Because the landlord sold the house .i explained to them it wasn’t a good idea because I still .had a lot to do.they said had no we’re to go it’s stressful with  children and having a big family and so on and so on.they told me after I was.

If you intend on using FHA again, you of course have the issue of proving that the you either had a material life change warranting a larger property (had children) or you are moving far away for work. 

Your Solo 401k cannot rent properties to disqualified persons (you, your spouse, your parents, grandparents, children, and your grandchildren are examples).This is true whether you manage the rental or a property management company takes care of the logistics.

Usually I’m buying from grown children who are dividing their parents estate.