It's a huge hole that runs to a ditch.

You need to ditch it and get a good one.

I'll likely end up ditching him unless I can get the terms I want out of him. 

Now the guy recently ditched our son and I and I really want to take this thing on on my own.

You basically need to ditch your old spreadsheet except for calculating your baseline.

Not those who would do such as a last ditch effort without any funds.The lack of any ideas to this point tells me that no one thinks it is a feasible option.

Find out if they're motivated first, use a CRM to track (Keep mailing or ditch), then see what you can do with the property (Exit Strategy).  

I agree with you - by ditching this property and using the equity to move into something more permanent for growing family I can realize the savings rate and use my extra cash to buy in a more affordable cash-flowing market.

There's no way to put the dishwasher next to the sink, which is the logical place for it and if we ditch the 12 and 18 inch to fit it next to the stove there won't be a single drawer in the whole kitchen.

It may be time to reevaluate those goals so they fit with your new family life.The two negative cashflow properties should probably be ditched so you can refocus your RE goals.