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5 February 2025 | 38 replies
Agreed mate,I'm all about taking personal responsibility and I have been swindled many times in a similar fashion like many feel on this thread.It seems like these investors including myself in other instances get negligent and don't read between the lines.Especially after trust and a relationship have been established, we become gullible and don't second guess or question.Maybe it's greed for some but in my instance it wasn't.Just innocent and trusting stupidity (No, I'm never a victim as that is ******** mentality in my book).I had some spare $$$ and wanted to diversify in other assets through folks I considered friends and trustworthy business partners.Didn't even think twice to look things over.Looking back, it all makes sense now but it's easy being a general after the battle heheI only blame myself here...I mentioned in the thread further above that I lost to the tune of hundreds of thousands of dollars.Again, it is what it is and it's a lesson.Only myself to blame and have always taken the high road in such instances.As much as I'd like to fight for justice and go down the legal path, it just isn't worth the time and emotion.Upwards and onwards.Become better and make more than you have lost.Each to their own and that's just my personal "modus operandi"
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30 December 2024 | 8 replies
I book marginal candidates in between strong ones to create a scarcity mentality.
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25 December 2024 | 2 replies
We had many mishaps and health problems to deal with.
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28 December 2024 | 19 replies
Our mental model is to have enough that someone arriving late could put together a bare bones meal for dinner and have the essentials for breakfast before they head out to get actual groceries.
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31 December 2024 | 11 replies
If it crashes hard enough, it impacts your personal finances, your relationships, and even your mental/physical health.With the exceptions of politicians and so-called charities, building wealth typically requires sacrifice and time.
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3 January 2025 | 40 replies
Financially, but also mentally.
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25 December 2024 | 12 replies
You could have hired a PM and been financially and mentally better off.
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7 January 2025 | 27 replies
And I say this because I didn’t have that mentality a month ago, but here I am now :)Monika
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8 January 2025 | 27 replies
While it may possible in older homes, water damage is still a concern and raises health concerns.
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26 December 2024 | 13 replies
@Sofia De Santos Tavarez if you haven't already, have the property professionally inspected.This should catch MOST of the structural, health & code issues - but not all.