How much should the split be if I am a realtor I can assist in finding the house along with the GC finding the house I'm carrying all the risks of financing, my credit card for material until draw and 3% for design he however is loan originator, therefore earning off of my loan, as the GC, he wants to be paid for service as well as subs, he wants to be paid administrative fees of 3% of the loan, construction management 9% and construction reno o/p 25% ...he will carry labor until bank draw.

You have signed up for a lot more administrative complexity and restrictions on future capitalization than you likely know. 

Depending on your court, you may also be able to pull records later on that show if the appointment to administrator has been granted to the petitioner or not.

I would check with the plan administrator for the particulars of your program.  

Hi Michael: pls contact the administrator of your existing plan to see if the plan allows you to take a 401k loan.

I would distribute 20% of the LLC and get your custodian/administrator involved.

If you had general administrative business expenses in 19 you can report those on your Sch C (office expenses, advertising ect)

If so, the administration process has started and then your marketing to the PR (Personal Representative) to determine if the estate is willing to sell. 

All expenses that are administrative.  

Your third-party administrator and/or plan provider should be helping you set this up.