This is a "me" assumption: I assuming that I made a mistake somewhere in my analysis, so please feel free to show me. :) I learn a lot more from my mistakes than what I (very occasionally) get right on the first pass.

Practice analyzing deals, explore surrounding markets if NYC feels too competitive, and stay persistent, closing your first deal takes time but is well worth the effort.Good luck!

Kind of silly but I always feel they keep the best deals for themselves

I feel quite intimidated only seeing people with large followings and MULTIPLE properties.

It is validating to hear that most of you feel communication about this matter would be normal/expected.

I'm local and looking to see if anyone is nearby and wondering some things like how well BRRRR might work in our market (my feeling is not as well as others).Look forward to getting to know you!

Anything past that might feel weird.Good job going to your first one, that is a great step that too many people miss out on.

My husband has mixed feelings as to sell or keep.

I feel very strong on this one!!!  

My question is why you want to bring it up to code, other than just to feel good or improve your exit strategy?