So nobody likes to admit they don't know what they are doing, its embarrassing when you make an obvious mistake.

It is embarrassing for an adult to still be living at home with his parents, while everyone else are out on their own being independent.

Embarrassing frankly.

I was embarrassed when i got my first line cut!

These are homes that sellers would be embarrassed to put on the MLS!

Its was embarrassing and humbling, and the best experience I could have ever asked for.  

I'm always embarrassed to make an offer that's very low.  

Even if we are too embarrassed to admitted noways!

thank you to all for the comments. some of the answers i already knew. dealing with banks can be he rabbit hole described, yes, but it certainly sounds like the lawyers are the cause of the problem. here  in western new york, one of our lovely politicians has decided that he will start putting signs in the front yards of the " zombie" houses with the name of the bank on the sign just to embarrass them into doing something about it. a lot of good that will do. all he has done is increase the calls to the banks. it his his profession that has caused the problem with all of the red tape the banks must go thru just to foreclose on a dead beat that doesn't want to pay for the house he mortgaged. what really needs to be done by the politicians is to make things easier for the banks to take back what rightfully belongs to them instead of having to go thru hell to cater to someone who doesn't have the responsibility of a grapefruit. i just really hate to see these houses sit for years and years empty and fall a apart. by the time we investors actually get a chance to buy them and rehab them, the amount that the bank is able to get out of the poor rundown place is pennies on the dollar. thanks again to all the answers

Very embarrassing but a good lesson on keeping business funds in a lockbox and use only as directed.