thank you to all for the comments. some of the answers i already knew. dealing with banks can be he rabbit hole described, yes, but it certainly sounds like the lawyers are the cause of the problem. here  in western new york, one of our lovely politicians has decided that he will start putting signs in the front yards of the " zombie" houses with the name of the bank on the sign just to embarrass them into doing something about it. a lot of good that will do. all he has done is increase the calls to the banks. it his his profession that has caused the problem with all of the red tape the banks must go thru just to foreclose on a dead beat that doesn't want to pay for the house he mortgaged. what really needs to be done by the politicians is to make things easier for the banks to take back what rightfully belongs to them instead of having to go thru hell to cater to someone who doesn't have the responsibility of a grapefruit. i just really hate to see these houses sit for years and years empty and fall a apart. by the time we investors actually get a chance to buy them and rehab them, the amount that the bank is able to get out of the poor rundown place is pennies on the dollar. thanks again to all the answers

Very embarrassing but a good lesson on keeping business funds in a lockbox and use only as directed. 

😀 Oof, that's embarrassing.

The thought is a lot of people are embarrassed about foreclosure.

Contractors did all the work.Do yourself a favor and read this post slowly and carefully and do not respond, you're embarrassing yourself.

So I told him we could meet up for lunch and chat.When we met for lunch he stated as we were ordering that he felt embarrassed but he had forgotten his wallet.

I was devastated and embarrassed.

And don't be embarrassed when you forget to do the basics.  

People who are speaking in a language of vague and empty slogans and who cannot conduct a simple journalistic interview without embarrassing themselve.

The is no up side for a guru to be embarrassed by me.