So I am starting the loan process over again, for the third time.  

Great start to your investing journey! 

I'm starting to see more private note holders reach out to get a loan against the performing note they hold. 

I'd love to start hosting asap and I wouldn't allow the guests access to the kitchen (though of course they'd have access to their rented rooms, bathroom etc.).

That is awesome, congrats on getting started!

Are there new trends in commission splitting resulting from the NAR lawsuit starting to emerge?

If you are able to actively use the funds I would say start a real estate marketing company with it. 

Maybe one the contributors on BP will see your message and start something like that.  

Unfortunately, with the number of pivots that are publicized and at inexperienced investor’s disposal, there’s never been more avenues for inexperienced investors to hold on too long.I hope inexperienced investors are mindful of this because I am constantly interacting with investors who are falling for these traps and doing immense harm to themselves, even if they may not be fully aware at the time of their decisions.It's crucial for investors, especially those just starting out, to recognize that not every investment will pan out as hoped (unlike what the gurus will tell you).

I just need help on finding a path to get my hands on the capital This sounds like an incredible opportunity, especially with your uncle's experience and willingness to help you get started.