I will be in a group of 3 or 4 I'll have a white shirt on and I will have a menu standing on the table to help find me. 

You can find that directory by using the "Local Resources" menu found on the right hand side of any forum post.Or just use this next link:http://www.biggerpockets.com/real-estate-investment-clubs.html

Also have designed the new menu for 3 restaurants all in various countries.

The waiter "Excuse me, there is a shortage of T-bone steaks on the menu". 

I am having trouble navigating to a specific forum.I use the "Browse Forums" drop down menu and a list of forums show up to be selected, and if I hoover my cursor over any of those another level of subforums would be listed to it's right.That works for me as long as I am selecting the first seven forums on the drop down menu. 

Those alerts can also be seen if you mouse over the "Inbox" on the upper right menu bar and scroll down.

Scroll up and click on "Network" on the menu bar of this website.

The owner besides the basic menu would always have fresh daily specials of some different home made soups and sandwiches.

Those alerts can also be seen if you mouse over the "Inbox" on the upper right menu bar and scroll down.And lastly I highly recommend becoming a Plus or Pro member of the site and take advantage of all that BP has to offer you.

I had not noticed any drop down menu which indicated new listings like there is for colleague's requests ect.Just recently joined a few groups and still learning there.