In doing so, I believe it helps in having the tenant keep on their best behavior.

I'd give notice to the apartment, SO the grandma and mom know also, that you found noticeable use  of pot the (ODOR), paraphernalia left ( the pipe), and the woman just exiting the laundry room, when you went in.That this type of behavior is not permitted on the premises and it could jeopardize the tenancy of all.Get a Crime Free/ Drug Free addendum and have all on lease sign it you can add that at any time if you don't have one already.If you leave this unaddressed likely it will just be tested again.

I then looked  at everyone's comments and their behavior and decided if they needed this much back and forth  at every step now it isn't going to stop.

Let me rephrase this....put the monkey back on her shoulders (so to speak) by telling her that her failure to pay her entire share of her rent will force you to address the issue of initiating the process of eviction because of this.Thus it becomes her choice if she wishes to continue this behavior because of a really stupid and childish situation.Don't you wish you come sometimes send tenants to bed without supper or TV?

My title company had to pay it off and remove it then sue them for their bad behavior

In fact, prices will probably rise again in the spring and summer, now that the market appears to be returning to its normal seasonal behavior.

    I have often heard that the people that you surround yourself with can have a major impact on your behavior, thoughts, and actions. 

    I have often heard that the people that you surround yourself with can have a major impact on your behavior, thoughts, and actions. 

That type of uncertainty will lead to turnover or bad behavior.

On one hand I say it isn't worth your time and to move on to the next deal, but on the other, this is NOT acceptable behavior if what you say is true.